Sun, Jul 03 2011 12:00 PM Posted By: Jenny Wallis
Freedom of choice, independence and individuality are traits that characterize the American psyche no matter how old a person is. Yet with age, new challenges arise that defy one’s notion of these ingrained traits, including the challenge of where to live.
Villa Bonita knows all about the difficulties families face in looking for the right home and helps find the best housing solutions to fit a family’s needs.
“Aging brings challenges that require some help with life’s daily tasks, but it does not erase a person’s desire to control his or her own environment, activity and care.
Past generations folded the elderly into their households, but today that age-old arrangement is harder to maintain,” according to Jenny Wallis, marketing director for Villa Bonita.
“We find that our residents want more out of life than sitting in a fireside rocker. They are a vibrant generation used to doing more and enjoying the best that life can give — that is why assisted living
works for so many of today’s seniors.”
According to the National Association of Caregivers, an estimated 34 million Americans provide some care for an older family member, and 90 percent of individuals who receive home care get most of their help from family and friends.
“When a senior enters an already overworked or financially stretched household, resentment, guilt and fatigue can build on both sides, damaging the parent-child relationship and jeopardizing
the well-being of everyone concerned.
On the other hand, if one partner in a marriage needs greater assistance than the other, the same feelings can develop,” adds Wallis.
The impulse to care for one’s own is worthy of respect. For some people, home care is the best choice. But another choice is assisted living, the fastest growing long-term care option in the U.S. Why?
It’s the philosophy of assisted living to embrace independence, choice and the opportunity for seniors to live enriching lives.
Here are some ideas when considering an assisted living community:
• Start the conversation before a crucial step needs to be taken. This gives everyone time to get used to the idea.
• Consider the financial situation: How much money is there for care? What needs to be done to pay for living expenses?
• Keep communicating, engage in conversation and include everyone influenced by the decision to be a part of the conversation.
• Consider the parent or loved one’s perspective and emotional readiness.
• Think about location — should it be near your loved one’s current home or would it make more sense to move closer to yourself or to another sibling?
• Once location is decided, visit several senior living communities in the area.
• The healthier the senior is, the more options they’ll enjoy. As health declines so do the options for care.
• Keep the conversation alive and plan accordingly.
• It may feel somehow callus or ungrateful to share the caregiving responsibility with outsiders but story after story and statistics tell otherwise.
In assisted living, family members are welcome to visit and participate in community life, and benefit from the support services and knowledge that their loved one is more than well cared for, they are
partaking in an active, stimulating lifestyle.
It’s well documented that older adults who need some assistance with daily living benefit from assisted living.
Tasks such as dining, cleaning and medication management are taken care of.
They thrive from better nutrition, more social interaction and higher activity levels in assisted living communities.
It is important in today’s guilt-ridden society to better understand the many options of senior living in the 21st century. Check out the assisted living options at Villa Bonita by contacting Jenny Wallis at (619) 476-9444.
About Villa Bonita Villa Bonita provides the finest in senior living with assisted living and memory care options for residents. Located in Chula Vista, the expertly trained staff provides residents with the highest standards of senior care services. It is operated by Integral Senior Living, which manages independent, assisted living and memory care properties. ISL is founded on a care philosophy that fosters dignity and respect for residents and promotes their independence and individuality. For more information on Villa Bonita call (619) 476- 9444 or visit www.villabonitaseniorlivng.
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